We all know children mimic the habits of their parents

We all know children mimic the habits of their parents.
But in my view, there are four major factors to develop your children personality and shape their future
25% from gene, which you have no control from it
25% is from parent’s influence, which parent’s behaviour and habit
25% is from living environment, which is the education and peer group they spend time with
25% is from destiny, which universe will sometime blow out your life and give your very hard lesson out of nowhere for no reason. Trust me, shit thing happens to good people.

As your children is in the different stage, each factor has different weight on their personality. In the early childhood stage, parents can significantly influence children up to 75%. But as they grows up, their living environment will totally outweigh the parent’s influence.
And believe it or not, your children may become totally different person when destiny knocks the door. So parents, don’t be so hard to yourself but also make sure you set up the good example for your children.

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